Polyamory: Make It Make Sense

Sway Montgomery
6 min readJan 31, 2024

Make it make sense.

I spent the night of my 49th birthday with a man that is not my husband. It’s strange for me to think about in that way…a strange man, on a special day. My day.

The day was, in fact, special.

It’s not the day I would have imagined only a few weeks ago however.

My husband, Avery, and I have been exploring ENM for just over a year now, and dove into polyamory in early summer, when I began a committed and loving relationship with Marc. I’ve written so many times about my struggles with…

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Sway Montgomery

I was a baker, a cookbook author, a follower of the rules. Now I am following my passion for sharing and exploring all the rules I should have been breaking.