Jealousy? In Polyamory? I Have It.

Sway Montgomery
4 min readDec 21, 2023

Have you ever had a parent tell you to Knock It Off?

I’ve heard it plenty. Even out of my own mouth…

Knock it off.

But what exactly is IT? What IT are you knocking, and OFF of WHAT?

For me at the moment, it’s a bit of a monster.

It’s different.

Watching your husband fall head over heels with a woman that isn’t you?

Yeah…it’s different.



Sway Montgomery

I was a baker, a cookbook author, a follower of the rules. Now I am following my passion for sharing and exploring all the rules I should have been breaking.