I’ve been you. And I’ve been the wife. Life does things to us that we can’t understand, we just can’t imagine how we got to where we are. I hope the best for you, I do. It’s not for me to judge, but my gut tells me you’re better than this man. Leave him to his unassuming wife. You will find the right man at the right time. You will. This one was there to point you in the other direction.